המתת השור

to make a long story short; i will propose the following framework for a possible relationship with me

I live in a fascinating continent : Africa
I wish  to visit this continent with a man who would be williing to come a few times a year and know me together with this continent. it means that this man

1/ is interested in me and that i am interested in him

2/ that he is available, not married not lying

3/ that he has the means to come to Africa

4/ that he is not living in dream land but on planet earth

5/ that he has the mind with horizon and thirst for life 

but please no prejudice or racism 
i think this will be the only possible frame work dont you think . 
but maybe, I am dreaming