לקראת חדירה אנאלית

לקראת חדירה אנאלית

גון קונור מקלאוד​(נשלט) • 3 באוק׳ 2006

STEP 1: ATTITUDE

Play up the role. Fantasy apparel can really help put you into the the sexy role you desire. It can drastically help you overcome any inhibitions, and help you find your comfort zone. Your confidence is going to overwhelm you partner by turning him on, and making it easier for him to accommodate your aggression with a more submissive role. So get yourself a police hat and set of handcuffs. practice one liners like. "your under arrest", "spread your legs, and put your hands behind the bed." "Bend over and assume the position". This is also a great time to rehearse in your mind how you are going to act out the fantasy. Sometimes writing a sexy scenario out and letting your spouse read it, and improvise it with suggestions can really build up excitement. Which will also make role playing a much more rewarding experience.

STEP 2: ACTING OUT THE ROLE

Try to keep a firm hand. You may be in control by choice, but your firmness and slightly forceful persona will remove any doubt in your mind and your husbands mind as to who is calling the shots! At this point you will begin to feel the satisfaction of control. For some this satisfaction will only be achieved after overcoming the initial hurtles of comfortably. Here are some suggestions to help acheive this firm hand. The Apparel of course as previously mentioned, make up, and slight game plan as how you are going to act out your fantasy are great ways of prepping and overcoming any uncomfortablility, but know here are the firm stokes. Pressing his hands firmly against the wall as you frisk him up and down. Pay attention to the inner thighs, slowly work your way towards his croch, and ask him "what do you have here". That's it I'm placing you under arrest! Pull his hands firmly behind his back, and gently cuff him. Tug on the handcuffs a little. Your goal is not to cause pain, but to create a mood. A balance between being a sexy woman and passionate woman, and also women in control of her sexuality and man, who knows what she wants. Stand behind him, unbutton his pants slowly, and slowly pull his pants and over his buttocks in a soft manner, then pull them the rest of the way down from his thighs to his ankles forcefully. Back and forth soft, ruff. Rub your hand barely over the round buttocks, with a quick slap against hiss ass. Again this is all light hits, not bruising pain. Run your finger from the crease of his buttocks up the middle of his back softly until you reach the middle of his back, open your hand and push firmly on his back while you begin to tug on his hand cuffed hands. Pull him into to you and give a little thrust. Talk Dirty, "Do you understand how much trouble your in?" Thrust a few more times, and let him know what you are going to do to him in the words you are most comfortable with. I'm going to have to TAKE YOU to the station, or I'll TAKE you right now!, Do you understand your rights? You have the right to bend over! Push on his back and start thrusting more. If he does not answer you ask him louder. Do you understand you have the right to bend over! If you he says yes, smack his ass again and tell him YES MAAM!

STEP 3: THE TEASE

Part of getting ready for strapon sex is preparing the anus for penetration. This can be done in a way that is a tease, and a turn on. A wet lubricated finger lightly rubbing around the anal area, with only a slight pressure. This can be done with your tongue also, which is known as analingus, or rim job in colloquial sex terms . Pleasuring the anus with your tongue requires good hygiene on the behalf of your partner from washing. is very important for keeping good hygiene This creates a very intense feeling in this erogenous area. Anal sex can be slightly uncomfortable at the start, due to the tenseness of the sphincter muscle. Once the sphincter is is stretched, the membrane past the sphincter can be very comfortable. Due to the slight uncomfortable passing of the sphincter, it is important to prep the mood for anal sex by the slight touching and/or tonguing of the highly sensitive skin of the anus. Building up the mental mood also by putting the strapon dildo on and rubbing the didlo along the crease of his buttocks, and press the tip of the dildo against his anus. Read his body language, as he responds and begins to push his anus against the pressure you are applying. This is a great time to talk dirty again. During the sensitive touching, use your other hand to massage his testicles and penis, you can also use your other hand to hold him very firmly and push his body firmly against your strapon. Make sure you tell him "that's right, you keep that ass moving" perhaps with another slight slap. By know you should have an idea of how to tease, and prep his mood for taking the dildo into his body.

STEP 4: THE PENETRATION

Now we go on to passing the sphincter muscle. Using your finger if you do not have long nails, or more preferably a smaller sex toy such as a vibrator very slowly enter through the anus. The rectum does not create any natural lubrication, so lubrication is absolutely necessary. Some people prefer to use saliva to help lubricate, but it will not last long at all, and neither will the pleasure. In choosing a lubrication the question rises, do I use water based lube or silicon based. Water based products begin to gum up with friction and require some water to be added to them to reactivate the lubricant, however silicone based lubrication can last last and last! Silicone and oil based products are not always safe for latex, and rubber sextoys. So invest in the right lubrication. Some water based lubricants are specially designed for long term intercourse. AstroGlide is an excellent water based product. Again keep in mind that certain sex toys and condoms cannot be used with petroleum based lubrication. So pick the right dildo to accommodate your lubrication needs. Free samples of astroglide can be obtained by visiting www.astroglide.com or you can purchase astroglide discretely from the www.straponshop.com. After you have penetrated past the sphincter muscle slowly you should be able to determine if your partner is ready by his body language. Once he is ready he is ready! The anus was designed a one way direction, so take a little patience. Pleasuring his penis with a lubricated hand can help speed up the process. As his body relaxes his anus will begin to adjust to the dildo. Pleasurable touch can also help get his mind of the pain and get past the tight sphincter. He will have the tendency to pucker up down there, he really needs to concentrate on what is called bearing down, the opposite of flexing the kegal muscle. Once you have gotten past this stage you may increase the tempo to the point where you are rapidly fucking him. How deep you can go without pain varies from person to person. Going deeper sometimes takes a little bit of slowing down to get him used to the feel. Some men enjoy the big 10 inch dildo, others don't enjoy the feel of the dildo banging there intestines, so you if you want unhindered rapidness and to fuck fast and hard, it might be better to start out with a smaller dildo. he will experience great comfort in feeling you body touch his naked buttocks at the end of every thrust, so sometimes using an oversize dildo is more of an effect and less practical in the area of naked bodies touching during sex.


STEP 5: CREATING THE COSMIC ORGASM

Did you know the prostate is going to get massaged by all this? Some men report that they are able to achieve ejaculation from strapon sex alone! This may be very possible, but manual stimulation of the penis is still the best way for him to have the ultimate experience! If he doesn't seem to have an erection don't get upset, it due to the pressure on his prostate. You can always bring the thrusting to a short halt and work and erection back up. Some men do not find strapon sex pleasurable unless they have stimulation of the penis also. If your firm hands pulling his body are not free to due this, grab his hand put it on his cock and tell him to jerk of while you fuck him! You can word that in the way that suits you best. "play with yourself, it really turns me on". Its all about pleasure and conformability! Turn your lover around in different positions to, now some may be slightly uncomfortable for him, so you need to tell him what you want, and move him with your hands. You hopefully are out to please him, not humiliate him and make him feel feminine. That is not what this site is about. This is about role reversal and pleasing him in an area he may be slightly shy about, so use your control in a positive way. Be sensitive to the fact that he may be uncomfortable with the new submissive side of sex. Missionary position is also very erotic. It frees your hands to give him a hand job, and you can even perform fellatio on him while having strapon sex! Hands handcuffed to bed posts while you are screwing him and giving him a hand job, makes it easy for him to completely submit to you. When he ejaculates you can continue to thrust into his ass which actually causes more semen to be released due to the stimulation of the prostate! So if you are into messy facials, cum coated breasts, than this is a definite plus. He is handcuffed the bed, so you don't have to wipe down your mouth to kiss if you don't want to, he is under your control, so give him a sloppy cum kiss if you desire, or have him suckle your breast if you wish. Perhaps you never had the nerve to suggest or try a snowball kiss! Let him know how it feels to have that taste, and he will always appreciate what you do for him! Keep in mind that a hormone is released into the mans body after orgasm that actually causes the erection to go limp, which is why men tend to get sleepy after sex. Men have different hormone levels, some are ready for seconds others need to wait a while before they can feel aroused again. If your man is the type who loses all arousal after orgasm, you may wish to cease strapon thrusting and save any snowballing games for pre-cum, or semen spilling without ejaculation. You can also keep him cuffed and mount your self above his face so that he may perform oral sex for you. However with the proper strapon, you can actually achieve vaginal pleasure with every thrust of your body

STEP 6: BACK TO NORMAL

If your like any other average married couple this was a new turn on, changing sex roles, but it shouldn't be the cause of any shocking changes in behavior after sex is over. Basically, return to your normal way of doing things, and don't press the dominant issue to the point where he becomes regretful that he ever played along. So keep in mind that role reversal games are performed in the bed, and should not influence the way your accustomed to conduction life outside the bedroom. This is why emphasis was placed on strapon sex not being performed if it is found to be offensive to masculinity. The strapon play in this article is supposed to be pleasurable, and explorative, insightful of different roles, a stress free scenario for the man to perform, and the opportunity for the woman to possess more control in the bed then she normally could through the changing of sex positions. The purpose of this page is to not only to offer information, but sexy images for ideas, links to sites that provide more videos and material for you and your partner to be aroused by, and of course great sex toys that are available for you to try out! I hope this page has helped create a further interest in exploring fantasy strapon play. If you would like to comment on this article, or see some ideas added contact Elizabeth at s t r a p o n l o r d @ y a h o o . c o m . Have fun and make great love!

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DanaDomme​(שולטת) • 3 באוק׳ 2006

אתה חתיכת משועמם.

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oy vey • 3 באוק׳ 2006

משועמם, או לא (כנראה שכן)
אותי זה דווקא עניין

strepon • 12 באוק׳ 2006

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אני השמח לקבל יעוץ והסברים על נשים שמזיינות גברים (STREPON) מה אתן מרגישות ואף אולי משהיא תרים את הכפפה ותלמד אותי את רזי החדירה מאחור.
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strepon • 12 באוק׳ 2006

נושא מעניין ומחרמן
אני השמח לקבל יעוץ והסברים על נשים שמזיינות גברים (STREPON) מה אתן מרגישות ואף אולי משהיא תרים את הכפפה ותלמד אותי את רזי החדירה מאחור.
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אכילס • 21 באוק׳ 2006

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