The quest for a Bottom spouse

The quest for a Bottom spouse

ראובן • 27 בנוב׳ 2006

Dears

I write this, after being a Top for quite some years, during which I've had two lasting relationships with female Bottoms, each for longer than three years. This means not only that I'm quite seasoned in all regarding BDSM, both mental and physical aspects of it, but that I know how to maintain an intimate relationship and that above all - I know what I want from a woman who cares to share my life

Many women tend to proclaim their readiness for true commitment, but as I found out - most of them do not have the basic skills and patience that are required for a relationship that is more meaningful than a few fleeting sessions

I must admit that I'm quite flabbergasted at my inability to find one decent female sub, whom I could love, teach and probably marry. My tastes are distinctly European, both in the BDSM sense and my taste of women - and I'm ready to admit that I've given some thought to importing a suitable woman from Europe - but relinquished that thought because mostly, european females will find Israel quite ghastly and barbarous, and I do not want to have and marry a woman who's shut-off from the world

Maybe I'm too picky, maybe it is the sad fact that BDSM is still quite infantile in Israel, and most people haven't yet found out how to mediate between their inner urges and other aspects of life, but the fact remains that my heart yearns for that one woman I cannot seem to find. So, dears, if anyone knows of such a gem, who is at peace with herself in the BDSM sense, and is ready for commitment, do send her over to me, so that I could make her acquaintance

Cheers
Ruben