ANOTHER QUESTION TO SMART PEOPLE

ANOTHER QUESTION TO SMART PEOPLE

Mistress Gatta • 4 בספט׳ 2004

What a smart beautiful and married mistress to do if her favorite slave leaves her because he is deeply in love with her?

and also

Mistress Gatta • 6 בספט׳ 2004

does married Mistress have a right to have unattached slaves? does in not always brings heareche to both parties?

Master_Abra_Kadabra​(שולט) • 7 בספט׳ 2004

what else can you do but let them go?
If you love someone- set them free
.as the famous song says


If the bdsm connection turns into a romantic relationship -this question should not be' at all' adressed as relevant to BDSM
since it's no longer exlusive for the BDSM format

after all' love will save the day
should the original marriage fail
it should have failed in any rate
either as a result of meeting a lover
a slave
a person
just name it
? know what I'm sayin

Mistress Gatta • 7 בספט׳ 2004

then another question why Mistress has to disclose her private life to any slave, In a realm of BDSM her personal life has no meaning to any slave. Mistress is Mistress, and only should remain that, and nothing else

also

Mistress Gatta • 7 בספט׳ 2004

if slave is aware of the fact that Mistress is married, perhaps he should have stayed away from her from the very start, if he cannot hendle the situation, and never should have gone further with BDSM, knowing about his feelings. Mistress should not be blamed for feelings that slave started feeling.

Master_Abra_Kadabra​(שולט) • 7 בספט׳ 2004

both last issues are again irrelevant to BDSM
a mistress is a human being, not a cartoon superwoman
if she denies her feelings it is indeed a problem
a problem that has nothing to do with her being a mistress or whatever

and about the slave? who said all slaves are bound to fall in love
?
and if they do
like in any other situations
? who guarantees them their falling in love will follow an immidiate falling in love

Master_Abra_Kadabra​(שולט) • 7 בספט׳ 2004

and if not an immediate one
? a slow but sure one

to MasterbAbra

Mistress Gatta • 7 בספט׳ 2004

but still the question remains should slave be notified of his Mistress marriage or not? after all BDSM is not about getting married and living happily after. slave is slave, and Mistress is Mistress. When game is over slave goes home, and when Mistress wants to play again, slave comes back, that's all it is.

Master_Abra_Kadabra​(שולט) • 8 בספט׳ 2004

well
not always
I know of enough BDSM relationships which are bound in marriage or "a serious" relationship
I don't see it as a contradiction none whatsoever

Mistress Gatta • 8 בספט׳ 2004

perhaps between single mistress and single slave, but if mistress is married, what kind of relationship can slave expect- only fun and games, nothing above that, and he should always remember that