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another question

Mistress Gatta • 13 בספט׳ 2004

is it possible to ruind someone's life by having interner sessions with that person, then seeing him for 10 days? what does it take from Mistress to achieve such devostation? I wellcome all input, 'cause i'M A BIT SCARED TO DAMAGE SOMEONE ELSE NOW

Mortai​(שולט) • 13 בספט׳ 2004

no its not possible, if said damage happened then it was something that was alrerady there at the time

to darling LoveBites

Mistress Gatta • 13 בספט׳ 2004

I wish I knew how!!! But you know what, send me an e-mail, we shall talk. Lady_Gatta@hotmail.com

You never own more than 50%

Dan_Kap​(שולט){f,yt,D,תכ} • 14 בספט׳ 2004

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In a relationship, of any kind, you cannot be responsible to more than 50% - your 50%.

Most likely, if a person's life was ruined by 10 days of internet sessions, you were nothing more than a trigger to something that was there before.

Are you sure someone is not trying to manipulate you using a guilt trip?!

thank you

Mistress Gatta • 14 בספט׳ 2004

Perhaps, u are right, and this someone is trying to place lots of guilt on me, although it was not just 10 days of internet, it was 5 months of total control over great distance and then 10 days of real sessions. But I agree, each person should be only liable for 50% of everything, Thank you for your reply. Mistress Gatta

מביט Nהצד​(לא בעסק) • 26 בספט׳ 2004

Well, i think you're liable to much less than 50%, if you're liable at all. We are talking here about a grown man, who knew what he is doing and what the consequences might be. In that case, i think he should take the responsebelity for his acts.

right on

Mistress Gatta • 26 בספט׳ 2004

See. I.m much to nice willing to take some resp. even when not required. But perhaps you right, but in the matters of heart business it's always two that are guilty no matter what- his is responsible, ok, but I nevertheless, feel bad!

מביט Nהצד​(לא בעסק) • 27 בספט׳ 2004

True, both parties will feel bad, no doubt about it, and as they say "it takes 2 to dance Tango" (Do you have this phrase in English also?), but only one of them cheated on his partner, and therefore needs to take full responsibility for his actions

anything can happen...

Mistress Gatta • 27 בספט׳ 2004

what goes around, comes around. now that my ex-slave got himself a new mistress, he cheats with me on his new mistress! so i guess, this matter is closed, and i feel no guilt anymore

robroy​(נשלט) • 22 באוק׳ 2004

This is a good question,and I doubt tere is one right answer to all cases.
I doubt if an online contact can ruin a life but if one party gets really mentally involved in it,and it can hapen online too,and the other party just breaks up from any reason,it can be hard.The contact broken out of the blue can probably be harder on the sub who needs to be dominated,yet if the mistress knew he preffered another one on her it can be as bad.Of course the genders could be the other way around.
But people are comlicated...while some will say 'it was good while it lasted' and move on,others will go under...the longer the contact,the harder the fall.The fact it's online does not change the fact that it's a contact,it's not the same as in person which ending would be harder,but who can really tell...