כתבה וצילומים שלי במגזין הגרמני Schlagzeilan

כתבה וצילומים שלי במגזין הגרמני Schlagzeilan

Seductive Devil • 20 במאי 2014

הי לכולם,

מצ״ב קישור לכתבה וצילומים שלי, אשר פורסמו במגזין הגרמני Schlagzeilan. הכתבה עוסקת בקהילה הישראלית. את הצילומים ניתן לראות כאן:

http://thecage.co.il/coppermine/displayimage.php?pid=51349&fullsize=1

http://thecage.co.il/coppermine/displayimage.php?pid=51348&fullsize=1

http://thecage.co.il/coppermine/displayimage.php?pid=51347&fullsize=1

לאיכות טובה יותר לשם קריאה (לקוראי גרמנית) ישנן תמונות באיכות טובה כאן:

https://www.dropbox.com/sh/synl43wtphhoh94/AAA5tJEdsce4v66TfNeXAaWba

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תודה,

דוויל

Melody303​(נשלטת) • 21 במאי 2014

יפה יפה. נקבל גם את הגרסא המקורית באנגלית?

כול הכבוד

Bent • 21 במאי 2014

חבל שאיני יכול לקרוא את זה.

אבל כול הכבוד!

Mary Jane • 21 במאי 2014

יפה, כל הכבוד.
גם אני אשמח לקרוא באנגלית/עברית.

כן!

נזמית לופתת • 21 במאי 2014

נשמח לראות את הגרסא באנגלית.

לבקשת הקהל המאמר באנגלית.

Seductive Devil • 21 במאי 2014

Hallo Zusammen!

I admit I was caught by surprise when Matthias contacted me and asked me to write this letter to all of you fellow kinksters in Germany and the surrounding areas. Since I was never much of a writer, I feel obliged to apologize in advance in case you get bored with my writing and to thank you as well for reading, especially if you made it to the end!
Now, it's time to make acquaintances. I go by the nick of seductive devil, I'm a 35 year-old Dom, the Israeli brand born and raised. I live in Jerusalem, a kinky city by all religious measures you can think of, but one that has nothing to do with BDSM.

The revelation

First, you need to have some background in order to put things into perspective; so before I'll tell you about the kink life in Israel, I'll talk some more about myself
My introduction to BDSM happened relatively early, when I was a teenager. I remember reading a newspaper article about the book "The Story of O". I bought the book right away and read it eagerly to the end. Despite that had happened, I was a late bloomer, and it took me about ten more years to allow the secret, hidden desires to surface up.

Starting with baby steps, online playing and small measures in my sex life, I took my time to accept that my desires and needs were okay. I began by living this life within my own bedroom until it was the right time for me to join the active community life.
The Israeli BDSM community has one major online meeting point, a website named the cage (www.thecage.co.il) where all events are being published, equivalent to your SZ. There are a few more websites but they are smaller and have less influence.

Although Israel has a big place in the media, it is a small country with about 7 million residents, who are spread unevenly across the land.
Jerusalem is our capital and has the biggest population. We have Haifa up in the north, Beer-Sheva down south, and metropolitan Tel-Aviv, which includes many nearby cities and encompasses the majority of the Israeli-Jewish population.
With that said, I can say that 97% of the BDSM lifestyle and communal life takes place in Tel-Aviv and the surroundings; all the rest is simply casual meetings, and professional studios.

As a newbie who knew nothing about the real-life community and was living his desires secretly, my arrival for the first time in a Tel-Avivian club was a very positive experience. The music was alternative as I like, people were sexually liberated, dressed sexy and playing and DM's were traveling between the people keeping the order.
The liberal atmosphere and freedom to be myself, made the clubs in Tel-Aviv my second home, a place to meet like-minded people, to have a good-time and have pure fun.



The distance between Tel-Aviv and Jerusalem is about 60km each direction. For Israelis, this is relatively a long way to go—not just daily, but even weekly! The parties usually take place on Thursdays and Fridays (Sunday is a working day for us) and therefore traveling once or twice got tiring for me at some point. The weekly drives made me decide that Jerusalem deserves its own kink venue.

Jerusalem is a sacred city to the three major monotheistic religions in the world and is a very conservative city; therefore, holding a party where people come dressed in a minimal way or in latex is a call for problems. Moreover, the party scene is well established within Tel-Aviv, and getting people to leave Tel-Aviv region (or as referred by locals: 'the center') and travel for an hour to Jerusalem would be a hard task!
I had no other choice but a different meeting structure, and so I started the Jerusalem Munch, a round-table, with the help of friends from the community. The round-table meetings were relatively a success. Vanilla-like events, where no BDSM-related activities or appearances were present, but the participants were free to discuss, meet and socialise, feeling free regarding their sexual tendencies. But after a few meetings, I got myself a new position at work, and Jerusalem lost its kink event organiser for that time.

The Diaspora

My new position brought me into no other place then Germany, which is well known to all as a major country of kink and sexual liberalism, with Berlin as its capital. You can imagine how excited I was to move in to a country with such an impressive reputation! I packed my stuff--not forgetting, to pack my natural ropes with me, naturally.

In Germany, I've gone through two major processes.The first process was insights of a view from afar regarding the Israeli community. The second process I've gone through was studying the German community in NRW and learning new things both at the kink scene and of myself as a person.
I became a part time member of the community and got to have new experiences. I was in a different BDSM scene then the one I was used to, was exposed to different cultural behaviour, and obtained new insights.
My first meeting with the local BDSM scene was at a local peer-rope gathering. Fetlife's angels directed me to the SZ website, and after using some Google translate, common sense and devilish tools I managed to open an account and register to the peer rope event I was told about.

The moment I managed to "hack" the SZ site and set up a profile, a whole world of parties, peer ropes, and round tables was opened up to me. Suddenly there was no longer a stream of events but an OCEAN OF EVENTS, national, international and local, and I have to admit, most of them far beyond the 60km, but when in Germany, act like a German!

When the date of the peer rope meeting arrived, I packed my ropes and headed towards the premises. I was a little surprised that a meeting like this takes place so early in the evening (7p.m.) while in Israel almost nothing relating to BDSM starts before midnight! Sunlight in the summer lasts a long time, and people can be seen rigging behind the sunlit windows! For me, until that point, kinks were meant to be done after dark, especially when it's a public event.
I was happy to discover that the peer took place in a nice studio, well equipped for both rigging and suspension. These meetings became my true second home.

That day, I already got over a bit of my shyness and found myself rigging. Later on, I found myself suspending and taking pictures in broad daylight in parks around NRW, and I have to admit that it was a nice revelation to learn that the general population wasn't nosy or too bothered about it, as long as it was not too extreme.
The more I got involved, the more I got to know curious, nice people, hear stories, play around and discover BDSM hypnosis, a concept I was not aware of until I moved to Germany.

If I'll have to describe the German scene to you in a word, it will be that the German scene is very... Well, it's very German (with some exceptions). To me, German encapsulates order, mannered, respectful, well planned informative and also reserved in a way but liberal in others a combination of values which I was happy to be part of and which had affected me more than I thought it would.

The awakening and the reckoning

Writing this letter to you, I’m about four months back in Israel. I've spent a year and a half in Germany in total. I’ve attended two parties since my return and that was on my first two weeks here. Since then, I haven’t attended any party, but I do go to the Jerusalem round table, which takes place once a month. Currently, for me, this event is as close as it gets to the German scene and the vibe I have felt during my different experiences there. Since it takes place in Jerusalem, I feel obliged as a resident to support the kink within my city!

Parties are where I feel the Israeli scene misses a lot; If you plan to come and you expect to see many Israelis from all colours and sizes play around, spank, rig, shower and god knows what, you might be disappointed. You can expect more of a goth/ dark/ limited fetish party with alternative music. If there are any BDSM activities, they're probably covered with cigarette smoke. Also, please do not expect the place to be overwhelmingly equipped and luxurious.

Lastly, we Israelis are known to be very open, friendly, communicative and hospitable. I can say that there’s much truth in this, but the coin always has two sides.
When in parties around Israel, don’t be surprised if foot fetishists throw themselves at your feet in a heroic act and start licking your shoes. Don’t be startled when guys--Doms or subs--try to be pushy or touchy. Personal space has at times different meanings. Same goes for couples who come and want to play. There isn’t always a DM to make sure no one interferes with your play or tries to snick an un-permitted touch to your suspended sub, be it a he or a she (but it’s more likely to happen to a she).
Lastly, whether you’re a sub or a Dom, don’t be puzzled when a Mistress approaches you and announces dramatically that from this point on you should do as she bids; this might happen too. Don't let this behaviour come as a shock. All you need to do is to adopt some of the Israeli attitude related as “Chutzpah”--AKA pertness or sauciness--and be more strict regarding your personal space. Manners, the Israeli style.

If you would manage to adopt a little Israeli “Chutzpah” and be a little more indelicate than you’d be in Germany, you'll have a unique experience, which i’m sure will be a good one! A good one to tell of, a good one to laugh about and to share with others, as did my German friends whom I met after their visit in the Israeli Dungeon club.

Mit freundlichen Grüßen,
Seductive Devil

P.S.

Feel free to add me on Fetlife. If you come to visit and looking for tips, help and more - even kinky couchsurfing – just PM me![align=left]

Melody303​(נשלטת) • 21 במאי 2014

נהנתי לקרוא, תודה דוויל.

רוב תודות מלודי

Seductive Devil • 21 במאי 2014

שמח שנהנית לקרוא

נולי • 21 במאי 2014

אתה כותב לא רע בכלל

תודה נולי

Seductive Devil • 22 במאי 2014

אך אנו חלוקים בדעותינו