The Shield(שולט)
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לפני 17 שנים •
14 בפבר׳ 2007
עילי עזבי אותך מהספרים.
עילי אני מציע לך להתנסות באופן מעשי. היידגר כתב, שאפשר לתאר פטיש על ידי משקלו גודלו סוג המתכת שממנה הוא מורכב וצבעו, אבל ברגע שמשתשים בו פעם אחת מבינים את מהותו.
אז פשוט תתנסי וגם אם בסוף תקבלי ציון גרוע לפחות תהני בדרך. 
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Bent
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לפני 17 שנים •
25 ביולי 2007
מצאתי וזה נשמע מעניין
http://www.cpsphd.edu/dp_ediththomsen.htm
ABSTRACT This study utilizes a qualitative design to discover what if any techniques in SM sexual play are helpful to survivors of child sexual abuse. Seven women and one man from across the country were interviewed in-person or through e-mail regarding their thoughts and feelings about SM play’s helpfulness in overcoming problems with sexual intimacy. Their experiences were not differentiated by age, sex, or region of the country in which they reside. The data analysis followed the "constant comparative" approach of Grounded Theory (Strauss & Corbin, 1998). The findings reveal many techniques that were helpful for the respondents in gaining comfort with sexual intimacy. These include playing with control/power, communication, trust, a sense of safety, mutual respect, an emotional bond/intimacy, and being able to get in touch with one’s body. Respondents also gained self-esteem, self-respect, and knowledge of one’s self all of which are vital to achieving comfort with sexual intimacy. It was found that SM play provides a structure within which the participants could experiment with sexual activities and emotional intimacy within specific boundaries which they were party to setting. In this way they felt they were able to overcome certain inhibitions that evolved from their experience of sexual abuse achieving emotional and sexual communication which they had not previously been able to attain. |
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Queeny(מתחלפת){being}
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לפני 17 שנים •
25 ביולי 2007
הספר "בכבלי האהבה" מאת ג'סיקה בנג'מין נותן ניתוח פסיכולוגי פסיכואנליטי של יחסי שליטה. לא מאוד מעניין בעיני, אבל אולי מתאים.
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