Ace of Wands

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Around 1.87, living in Tel Aviv. Successful in my field. 

I've recently returned from London where I lived for a few years. Might end up coming back eventually. My Hebrew is a bit rusty.

I have many passions. BDSM is one of them. The brain is another. I help build some of the tools that make neuroscience research possible.

But really, I’m interested in anything and everything: books, rambling conversations, long walks through historic cities, pottery, language, cooking, fantasy, role-playing, physics, math, software, logistics, and just the world itself.

Other than that, I’m a genuinely caring and compassionate person. With someone I’m really close to, their happiness and pain feel like mine. I will go to great lengths to support those I love.

"S/M takes place when the top trades his or her energy for the bottom's armor. "
—  The New Topping Book by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy

My dominance is a way of fulfilling need.

I've found that there are many headspaces I get into. I've been Master, Sir, Daddy, or just a lover. I can be kind, demanding, forgiving, or harsh. I have a playbook of scenarios in my head. I just need to choose the perfect one for the person I'm with. 

If my partner doesn't know what she needs, I start small. Explore. There is a lot of joy in discovery. 

I'm really a Dom-leaning switch, though. There is a lot of pleasure to be had in submission, and the bliss of subspace is nothing short of an illegal high.

It's a bit like riding a rollercoaster, though. Really fun but not something I'd like to do every day.

Hard:
Blood
Injury
Scat/watersports
No-safeword play
Explicit patriarchy elements 

Soft:
Consensual non-consent
Breath play

נובמבר 2020