More often than not, you'd find yourself in a situation where you're giving your sense of self and your corporeal form freely to your significant other, be it a lover, a husband or just a random person you decided to let yourself be exposed to.
Brats are a source of enjoyment, I mean.. who wouldn't want to have to fight for their place on top, every single time ? I know I would.
You win some and you lose some, it's a struggle and it's a fight for control. Total domination - while it's got it's allure and enjoyment; not that exciting when you're subservient and not trying to get yourself into a little bit of trouble just because you got bored.
And here come the idea of Brats.
Argue, pick on and pick at the hornet's nest to get stung and enjoy it.
Get slapped around, choked, prodded and probed with digits and a cornucopia of items at the disposal of your significant other.
Get manhandled, tossed around and used for the enjoyment of your temporary betters, get bitten and licked... it's a lovely harmonious system of fun.
Petplay can often be associated with being a brat because you're letting yourself be something you're usually not. You bite, you're vocal, you want to play and goof around for attention and sometimes - you get spanked and other times - you get fucked.
Ain't that lovely?
The use of toys, of a snug collar that fits your neck oh-so-perfectly. The cold chains or the leathery leash that's attached to it and sometimes hugs you tightly and makes you remember that you're still a pet to a certain someone. A plug to remind you of your pet identity, the ears to match and the mindset that'll follow along with it.
At the core of every dominant person is to tame and control, none of us want to shy down from a fight when it's something we enjoy doing. Fight us, make it difficult and enjoyable. Make us look at you with admiration after all was said and done and we're just a panting, wheezing mess with nothing but our bodies feeling tired and slightly sluggish.
Total control, not worth having if one can simply have a lovely little human to annoy and bother; then turn into a screaming mess of a person. Control ought to be earned, sometimes taken(if given consent prior.) and above all - control never means the ignoring of safe words.
Ask your submissive and your brat if they're okay, help them up, give them the princess treatment if need be. They gave you their all, they let you physically abuse them for their enjoyment and theirs - they trusted you with something they wouldn't let everyone do.
Care for them, cherish them, love and adore them. As much as you want to make them into your little plaything - they need to be assured of the fact that they're in your mind for more than just sex.
Ta, you creepy cretins. <3