Diary of a Masculine Black Man

כמהת-יער{גיקית שמנה} - To be honest, I don't think it about ego. People here are pretty traditional and set in their ways, even if it's the cage.

הלן הדוב - It ain't purely ablut ego darling. It is about standards and preferences.
I for example will not tolerate illiterate submissives. If you want me - earn me.
And yes. Those who are in demand hold the power. Such is the nature of this world and in a world full of thirsty men, women can pick and choose. So can men by the way but it is often more obvious that women pick and choose.

I take it you were turned down multiple times. Might be the way you write or express yourself and if it is then do no blame the women. Look inwards. Communication is key in all relationship and especially bdsm ones.

What elevates *you* above the rest? Is it just your being black as mentioned in your profile? That seems literally skin deep. Try harder.

Lastly - while I agree there are diamonds in the rough and giving them a chance is worth while. Most men on the cage are not the creme of the crop but rather the bottom of the barrel. No one owes them anything. Expecting too much will just get you hurt.

ddcrystals{Masculine } - Wow! Interesting submission. I must say that I agree with your submission but not the entirety of it particularly the part where you mentioned black and all. I didn’t state that I received any more rejection from women here cos I am black . perhaps my inability to speak the language or write could be a coukd plsy a role in all of that but conclusion was them to look inwards and see the diamonds that lie within . Which leads to agreeing with what you said about a few men here just been creepy and being bottom barrel men. Trust me darling I am not hurt just expressing what I think and thanks to you for also giving your amazing view on it..

ddcrystals{Masculine } - I have a question for you .. how do you expect that person to earn you when you don’t give them the chance to prove it?

ddcrystals{Masculine } - Oh thanks for bringing that to my attention. I must have it thought wrong but my conclusion was based on experience and the few profiles I have come across here.