My own personal human nature is to bend and break the rules. I always enjoy it better when I have a partner in crime, but can manage very well on my own.
On the topic of BDSM there are thousands of manuals, books, diagrams, and rules......most of which are pure bullshit in my opinion. You all know what I'm talking about, like "a real Dom doesn't go down on his slave". Or a "true Mistress doesn't give B.J's". I always thought that if those two rules we enforced then the Dom\Mistress were enslaved to rules....and I like to break the rules.
But, there is the topic of protocol. Like making demands, or being rude, or applying presure in order to get what you want.
I am a very liberal woman, I accept people for who they are, but when you enter the BDSM ring there are certain behaviors that are not acceptable....by me at least.
Telling me to take off my sunglasses so that you can look into my eyes is bad, very bad. If I decide to take you on then this order that you gave me will interfere with the training. To try and spark up a nasty cyber chat on Skype with me is a big no no. It shows me that you have no self control and will always blame me for your failures. Cheating, and lying will for sure throw you out of the game.
When ever I decide to answer a sub that sent me a message it usually happens because I dectected quality in his way of approach or his profile. Usually I am right in the being....until their hormones start to go crazy and they lose any bit of common sense and way of behavior and let their typical horney man come out.
For this game that we are playing I have no rule book. I do deserve to be treated with respect and common courtesy, after all I am a human being and for the way that people are meant to be treated there is a rule book that I go by. Think before you speak, stop before you act, and remember that יחס גורר יחס.
