אני_במ

When I was younger I defined myself as fully dominant, nowadays I know I'm a switch.
Switches are known to get a negative reaction from some purists who believe you cannot be a switch and that these individuals just can’t make up their minds. This is far from the truth. It is difficult to define exactly who is a switch; there are many heated debates about switches.

Common myths about switches:

-Switches tend to be confused and have just not found the right person yet: No, most switches have been on the BDSM scene for some time, have experienced both dominating and submitting, and are usually very certain of what they want.

-Switches can’t be ‘real’ submissives or ‘real’ dominants: No, some switches can be fully effective both as dominants and submissives.

People often shy away from admitting they like to switch because they fear derision.

The art of being able to fully submit or be a Top at one moment or another takes a very strong person that knows exactly what they want from BDSM and goes out to get it.