המתת השור

seen from the perspective of a 54 years old, I can tell you only this : 
in life, we live, we love, we leave and we change...and not necessary in that order...
life is a wonderful changing magic thing that we donnot always have control on...and sometimes, you might even get a few good surprises out of it. 
just cultivate your inner and outward beauty which is obvious to everyone and your capacity to clear minded optimism, it being like a field to labor one every spring there is in life, every automn too...

there is no love labour's lost in life. 
it always grows you if you allow it to make it so. you touched love with your finger. it just deos make you a deeper, more beautiful and more sensitive individual than the ones who never allow themselves to love...thus to live.