Sweet surrender

lalla - Go to the
צוק.
Don't jump! Look at the view. Take a deep breath. Relax
Sort things out a little.
His hair? Who cares? Let him enjoy while he still has hair
Taxi home? Who cares? As long as he's waisting his own money.
Wrong friends? Smoking? That's not good, but all you can do is SUBTLY let him know yet again what is the meaning of good friends and good health in the life he's only beginning, the life itself will teach him the rest, and let's hope the lessons will not be too harsh.
For me dealing with my teenagers was like walking a tightrope- you can slack out too much, you can't make it too tight.
Lots of deep breathing and counting till 50.
It will change when he starts the army, and then you'll be very proud of him, and wish he was a young boy back home with you.
Just remember to breath deep

Tulsa​(אחרת) - Thanks for the advice. The only thing is, is that I try to count and breathe but then I go a little crazy, he does have a mouth on him my boy. That cliff looks so inviting at times. I often think that all it would take would a short run and a long jump.

lalla - That's the way off the cliffs, for some people, sometimes, they look especially inviting- not only becouse of kids