Conversations at the water cooler
I work in an office. Conversations flow as you know from the pleasant to the banal. We are a diverse group from all over the globe.
When you see the same group of people everyday people say the most random of things.
Today was a classic
Someone said they thought people in open marriages were greedy, disgusting and no better than people who cheat on thier partners. This person wouldn't let it lie. They went on and on about it.
Im quite mouthy but i could not say anything to out myself.
Am I a coward for not standing up for myself
Its my choice to be in an open marriage and why are you judging a lifestyle you know nothing about. Who are these miserable people who critisise.
There is a part of me that would love to tell people about some of the wonderful dates ive had and the deliciously kinky scenes ive played out.
When my husband or I play with someone we tell each other where we are going. We dont share details. We ensure each other is safe and happy. It adds another layer of communication and care between us.
My husband knows i enjoy pain, restraints and humilation. He doesnt understand it but is happy im satisfied.
Perhaps if the gossips round the water cooler knew some of the kinks i have they would not think it was a deviant thing to be tied to the bed post and beg to be fisted.
Im a nice girl so it must be ok.
Maybe if they saw me bent over being throat fucked with an anal hook inserted that was tied to my collar and to another hook in the ceiling they would see its alot of fun.
My one comment was its best not to judge.
Truth is i would not out myself.
In my head i thought you uptight cunt you are probably frigid, shit in bed and boring.
I hate being misjudged.
My other thought was...you have no idea how much fun this kinky life I lead is.
I do not need to defend my kinky life
I just live it
I just love it
We kinksters rock
