I believe that being a dominant man is a need much similar to that of the needs a child has.
When we where young we all needed something to protect us, show us love and devotion.
Sometimes from our selves and others from the elements around us, we where happy when we new our mothers or fathers would do anything to pleas and help us.
I remember the time when I was young and I started to feel sexually aroused, it just happened like an awakening, I didn't know what to do or how to make my feelings come to life.
I just knew I wanted to feel good more emotionally than physically feel the release of my urge to climax.
When I started having sex I didn't have a clue what I wanted or what I was doing, It all seemed weird and out of place, I wanted to feel the safe, as if i have returned to the womb surround myself with the embrace of love and care.
However, there was something else there something calling me, telling me to do things making me go deeper into a state of trans of fixation it empowered me.
I wanted to make my partner be mine body and soul
I needed her to feel how badly I wanted her how badly I desired her, I never knew before what it really was but with every crack of the whip I felt her body submit to mine, With every order I felt her giving me the kind of protection I was looking for, I wanted her to know that as much as she will submit and protect me I will guide her and be a vassal for her.
I still have yet to feel the true nature of which I desire so...
I know now what I need and want.
I will not rest or be quenched of this thirst the need to be safe, protected by the woman that shall submit herself to me so that I could submit myself to her.
Body and soul