If I read your blog or I read your profile it helps me improve my hebrew. I do enjoy your kinky musings. Sometimes it intrigues me. Sometimes it repluses me. Other times it resonates with something in my soul. I might even send you a message as I like connecting with kinky souls. "I have a tender spot in my heart for cripples, bastards and broken things." You may be all or none of those things...i may be all or some of those things either way I like interesting.
I may misunderstand or misread your words but you put them out there in all there glory for the reader to consume. I am extra hampered here as I have lived here for a small portion of my life...so apologies for any offence caused by my mistranslation.
One idea i picked up is that of what we are all hoping for when we share our thoughts, hopes or experiences. Are we mismatching or are we connecting or are we speaking to the void?
Are we looking for relationships...or sex...or communication...and what are we offering...are we giving.
My travels in BDSM are extensive and yet i feel there is an ever expanding universe for me to explore.
I can talk and listen to anything and everything. I know I have limits as to what i can do, will do and what I am able to do.
Im in an open marriage so my time is certainly limited.
Can I be in a relationship
What sort of relationship
Is a BDSM relationship sexual or romantic?
The sexual part is key. The boundaries are set, they can be pushed. To get them pushed there has to be trust. To raise the sexual stakes emotional trust needs to be formed.
This is where the blurring begins (in my opinion which is born out of my experience)
I can, do and have enjoyed some mindblowing sex, sexual experiences and sexual encounters.
But nothing compares to giving yourself to someone
Letting someone take control of your sexuality, your nature. I will learn his ways and serve him.
How do you build trust to get to that glorious peak
There has to be emotional connection
If so...is it romance?