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סוטה, חמודה, ובלונדינית ברמות. ראו הוזהרתם. 8-)

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"But if you love and must needs have desires, let these be your desires
To melt and be like a running brook that sings its melody to the night"
Khalil Gibran

It was beautiful to live"
when you lived!
The world is bluer and of the earth
at night, when I sleep
enormous, within your small hands."

Pablo Neruda
לפני 13 שנים. 27 בספטמבר 2011 בשעה 16:27


In case I wasn't clear earlier:

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May the new year bring us all peace, happiness, love, prosperity, laughter, warmth, affection -- and a damn good spanking (given or received -- whichever your preference).



חג שמח וגמר חתימה טובה לכולכם.

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לפני 13 שנים. 27 בספטמבר 2011 בשעה 12:36


I have thoughts in my head that demand attention, and patience and dedication in order to mould them into something representing a decent piece of writing.

In the meantime, therefore, I will post this

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And since I couldn't decide which version I preferred of this glorious song, I will also post this, because to compare Diana with Frank is to compare apples and oranges.

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Shana tova, all of you. I hope it will be a very happy new year
לפני 13 שנים. 26 בספטמבר 2011 בשעה 7:32


http://bluepyramid.org/ia/lvn.jpg


You're Lolita!

by Vladimir Nabokov

Considered by most to be depraved and immoral, you are obsessed with
sex. What really tantalizes you is that which deviates from societal standards in every
way, though you admit that this probably isn't the best and you're not sure what causes
this desire. Nonetheless, you've done some pretty nefarious things in your life, and
probably gotten caught for them. The names have been changed, but the problems are real.
Please stay away from children.


Take the Book Quiz
at the Blue Pyramid.



BBC -- please note the use of the word "nefarious".

Heh heh heh.
לפני 13 שנים. 26 בספטמבר 2011 בשעה 7:05


Another one from the vaults (mildly edited). Because -- well, it would be rude not to.

Car

What would be the correct form of greeting for such an assignation? she wondered to herself, as she negotiated the lunchtime traffic.

An outstretched arm to shake his hand as he slides into the front seat next to her?

Both arms extended for a warm and friendly hug, that wouldn't reveal her true feelings (a combination of giddy excitement, and nervous terror)?

Or a slow lingering kiss, growing in rapid intensity and passion, sending tingles all over her body, and shivers up and down her spine.

She knew already, without a doubt.

She knew that to kiss him straight away was madness. She also knew that she wouldn't be able to help herself.

Goddamn fucking blind date etiquette.

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This broke every rule she'd ever established for meeting up with a blind date. This was not a public place, it was her car. She could be trapping herself in a tin can with a lunatic.

She didn't care.

She'd felt the connection, when they'd first exchanged emails. It's quite astounding really, how pheromones can travel via email. You can tell from how a person writes, from what they say, from how they phrase... whether it's game on, or no way Jose.

This had been game on from the get go. The click, the connection, that feeling. That smooth lilting accent that made the hair on the back of her neck stand up.

She'd felt it, instinctively.

And the funny thing was, so had he.

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In the midst of her pondering, the car door swung open, and he slid into the seat next to her.

She was slightly taken aback -- despite having thought of little else than this moment for the past few days. At the last minute, her mind had wandered, and she'd found herself wondering about parking in the city, of all the trivialities that could have occupied her mind at the time.

She turned, and slipped off her sunglasses, as he leaned in towards her. She caught a glimpse of his sparkling green eyes, with a glint that matched her own. He drew closer, and she smelled his cologne; musky, manly and very sexy.

There was a nanosecond of indecision, on her part. As far as he was concerned, it was already signed, sealed and delivered.

His lips felt soft, yet commanding and strong. His tongue teased hers, and her lips teased his in retaliation. She moved closer to him, as he put his hand on her face, the intimacy of which delighted her. Her head spun, and when they finally broke, she panted as she shook her head, vainly trying to return to some semblance of normality.

"That was the official 'hello' " he said. "Why don't you pull over further up the road so i can kiss you again? That'll be in lieu of a 'How are you doing?' "

She mumbled something incoherent in reply, breathless and indistinct; he pointed ahead and indicated that she should drive.

She drove. She parked the car. They kissed again, this time for longer. When they broke, this time he was the one panting.

"I think we should shelve lunch. I think I'll have you for lunch instead."

לפני 13 שנים. 25 בספטמבר 2011 בשעה 13:03


One from the vaults -- because I can.

He called to tell me he'd bought some silk rope so he could tie me up. No other reason.

No "hi, how are you?"

No "The weather is fabulous today, let's fuck under a tree in the park after work."

Nothing like that.

I picked up the phone and before i could utter even a sound he'd starting whispering debauched nothings in my ear.

"I want you secured and pliant. Submissive and aroused. My good girl. My slut."

I shivered in delicious anticipation. Then he began to describe the rope.

How silky and smooth it felt to the touch. How long and luxuriant it was. What a wonderfully inviting and slutworthy red color it was.

How he envisioned using it on me. How he would first tie my wrists together, and then bend me into a horseshoe-shape as he bound my secured wrists to my ankles.

How he planned to slide the tail end of the cord inside me and then tease my lips with it. Trail it over my face and leave stardust trails of arousal across my cheeks.

How he would pause to slide the end over my tongue and allow me to lick my own abundant juices off it.

I listened in silence, frightened to open my mouth for fear of groaning aloud with suppressed desire. The descriptions he articulated formed images in my mind so precise that I could almost touch them. The desire these images awakened in me was almost feral, so immediate and tangible was my arousal.

In my sub rosa state, unwilling to betray the maelstrom behind my passive expression, I enjoyed the feeling of my cunt moistening.

I imagined how the smoothly shaven labia majora would glisten invitingly to him. Easily visible with my legs bent up and away from my torso. Wet and awash with feeling I sat there.

Speechless. Thrown and overblown with bliss.

It's amazing how a phone call can change your whole day.

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לפני 13 שנים. 25 בספטמבר 2011 בשעה 6:41


I am not perfect, I never said I was
Do I try to be? No.
I don't try. I just am.

I do what I can.
I live according to my creed:
"Do unto others as you would have done unto you." (Mostly)

I believe in the good in people
I am saddened at evidence of the bad
I live and I laugh -- and yes, I also dance

I do what I can and I am what I am

No one can ask for anything more.

לפני 13 שנים. 24 בספטמבר 2011 בשעה 10:53


Check out today's Google image -- celebrating what would have been the 75th birthday of the amazingly wonderful Jim Henson.

I feel compelled to include a video of a song that I love in both its original form, and as sung by the Muppets. The original is a beautiful, evocative song (that I dedicate to the cat of my heart), and the Muppets' rendition of it makes it all the more poignant.

The genius of Jim Henson continues to be missed. Happy birthday, Jim. Rest in peace.

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Time In A Bottle -- Sung and written by Jim Croce

If I could save time in a bottle
The first thing that I'd like to do
Is to save every day 'til eternity passes away
Just to spend them with you

If I could make days last forever
If words could make wishes come true
I'd save every day like a treasure and then
Again, I would spend them with you

But there never seems to be enough time
To do the things you want to do once you find them
I've looked around enough to know
That you're the one I want to go through time with

If I had a box just for wishes
And dreams that had never come true
The box would be empty except for the memory
Of how they were answered by you

But there never seems to be enough time
To do the things you want to do once you find them
I've looked around enough to know
That you're the one I want to go through time with


© TIME IN A BOTTLE; CROCE PUBLISHING;

לפני 13 שנים. 24 בספטמבר 2011 בשעה 7:42


In my previous post, I made mention of the old adage "never ASSUME because it makes an ASS out of U and ME".

It occurs to me that this phrase, in and of itself, is worthy of a post all to itself. It's way beyond a phrase, it's a serious issue that can result in foolish behaviour and dangerous consequences.

What do I mean? I'll tell you. (Patience is a virtue, friend -- breathe easy.)

Despite my relative reluctance to write in Hebrew, I do speak and read and understand the language fluently. I read quite a lot of Hebrew -- much more since I entered the scene locally -- and it troubles me that there is a tendency to write with assumptions of "what a sub is", "how a sub should behave" (a topic that sets my teeth on edge by just mentioning it here) and "what should happen in a session".

Seriously?

Write to me of "I did this." Write to me of "I tried this and it felt great!" Write to me of "I'm no expert, but I feel that this is the best way for me. " Suggest. Imply. Describe. Fantasize. But do not -- DO NOT -- tell me what the fuck I should do or how i should do it.

Take responsibility for how you act, but don't you dare presume to tell me.

Only one person gets to do that.**

** And even then it's within a framework of our own conjoint decision-making.

לפני 13 שנים. 23 בספטמבר 2011 בשעה 16:35


Getting into the whole online experience was an eye-opener for me, but it was so long ago that I am amazed how many people seem to make the most elementary of errors, with regard to their own personal safety.

This worries me not a little.

I have a friend, who has a friend, who is just starting out in the scene, back over the pond in the US of A. My friend is an aware and understanding vanilla who used to be in the lifestyle -- in fact, were she capable of reading and writing Hebrew, she'd join this site and specify that she was "lo ba'esek". Her friend -- the newbie to BDSM -- is an older woman, divorced and starting over, and my friend asked me to offer her some basic advice, which I did, and now it's become a kind of Agony Auntie situation -- and each time I beat myself up for not mentioning some of these things earlier...

(Sorry, NEMRF, I know you made me promise to leave beating myself up to those who enjoy it. 😃

I'm still working out the details of what exactly happened, but it seems that some unscrupulous bastard was "asked" to "share" pictures that she had sent him, on a "dom" site/list. And he seemed impervious to any violation of personal space that this created. To make matters worse, these were pictures he'd taken of her during a cam session.

My actual response, which is unfortunately lacking here in the original screaming incredulity since this is not a podcast, was "what the FUCK?!"

I'm finding out the details now, I hope to god that the pictures showed no face and had no relevant metadata.

It just goes to show, one can never assume, it always makes an "ass out of u and me" -- and I feel as though, this time, I really dropped the ball.

Oy.




לפני 13 שנים. 23 בספטמבר 2011 בשעה 9:54

יוווווו. איזה גשם בחוץ! איזה כיף להריח אוויר צח ונקי אחרי הקיץ המיגע הזה.

חבל שאני כבר לא ברבזון.

(פעם הייתי אך גדלתי ודגלתי ויום אחד הסתכלתי במראה והופ! נהייתי Pink Tabby.

:-)