מה זה קשור?

The Art of Yukimura Haruki 雪村春樹
 
It is very important that the way I tie a woman is visually appealing. But it also has to feel good for the woman. If she isn’t having a good time in my ropes, then nothing will look good no matter how pretty the ties are. Fundamentally, all men have a face fetish; they want to see ecstasy on a woman’s face

To me, Shibari is an emotional exchange between a man and a woman…— to express love and emotion entirely through the medium of rope. So Shibari is not how you do this tie or that tie, it’s how you use the rope to exchange emotion with a woman

If I don’t open my heart to her, she won’t open her heart to me