בָּרוּךְ שֶׁעָשַׂנִי כִּרְצוֹנְךָ

“I do not want to be the leader.

I refuse to be the leader.

I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness.

I want a man lying over me, always over me.

His will, his pleasure, his desire, his life, his work, his sexuality the touchstone, the command, my pivot.

I don’t mind working, holding my ground intellectually, artistically;

but as a woman, oh, God, as a woman

I want to be dominated.

I don’t mind being told to stand on my own feet, not to cling, be all that I am capable of doing, but I am going to be

pursued, fucked, possessed by the will of a male at his time, his bidding.”

Anaïs Nin 1903-1977